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Nineteen More Child Homicides. Still No Reform.
How many more children must die before family courts take coercive control seriously? Nineteen children. Killed by fathers with known...
Deanna Newell
Jun 252 min read


Autism, Neurodiversity and the Family Court: Why Understanding Difference Is Essential for Justice
When autism is part of a family court case —whether it’s about child arrangements, safeguarding, or parental capacity—understanding...
Deanna Newell
Jun 253 min read


What Is a Narcissist? The Five Mistakes You Must Avoid
These people lack empathy. They avoid accountability. To them, it’s all about power. They strut around like gods — but don’t be...
Deanna Newell
Jun 253 min read


Why You Must Gather Evidence; Your Ultimate Checklist for Spotting Manipulation and Abuse
When you’re dealing with a manipulative or abusive ex, evidence isn’t just helpful — it’s essential. Abusers rewrite history. They lie,...
Deanna Newell
Jun 253 min read


When Finances Fuel Family Conflict; Hard truths about child support, alienation, & the real cost to children
Child support is meant to help children thrive — not destroy families. But for many non-custodial parents, it feels like punishment, not...
Deanna Newell
Jun 252 min read


Full Circle – Why I Speak Out
I Can Breathe Again No more walking on eggshells. No more shrinking to keep the peace. No more pretending. I left control. I found love....
Deanna Newell
Jun 242 min read


The woman is rising — and so is her voice.
He Said, She Said is more than a book. It’s a reckoning. Written by Charlotte Proudman — award-winning barrister, academic, and...
Deanna Newell
Jun 231 min read


Family Courts & Autism: The Crisis You Must Know
Family courts exist to protect children’s welfare. But for autistic children and families affected by domestic abuse, they often do the...
Deanna Newell
Jun 233 min read


Practice Direction 12J: What Every Survivor Needs to Know
What Is PD12J? PD12J is not optional. It’s the law. If abuse is raised in family court, this rule must be followed. When it’s not, lives...
Deanna Newell
Jun 232 min read


Family Courts: A System Built to Protect — Now Weaponised to Harm
The UK Family Court was designed to protect children and ensure justice in the most sensitive areas of life — relationships, parenthood,...
Deanna Newell
Jun 203 min read
The History of Family Courts in the UK: Are They Fit for Purpose?
1. Origins of Family Law in the UK The family court system in England and Wales has undergone major reform over the past century....
Deanna Newell
Jun 204 min read


The Domestic Abuse Crisis: How Do We End It?
Domestic abuse isn’t just bruises. It’s control. It’s coercion. It’s degradation, threats, fear - even sexual violence. It happens behind...
Deanna Newell
Jun 162 min read


What Is Parental Alienation?
In a Nutshell Parental alienation occurs when one parent intentionally damages or destroys a child’s relationship with the other parent....
Deanna Newell
Jun 163 min read


What Is Mental Health? And Why Are So Many of Us Struggling?
Mental health. Two small words. But they carry the weight of our world. We’re in a crisis. And we need to talk about it—loudly, honestly,...
Deanna Newell
Jun 163 min read


Are You Living in a Domestic Abuse Household?
Has your prince charming — or princess — started showing their true colours? Do you feel like you’re constantly walking on eggshells,...
Deanna Newell
Jun 153 min read


Coercive Control: The Most Dangerous Form of Domestic Abuse We’re Still Failing to Stop
Coercive control isn’t just another form of abuse. It’s the foundation of it - a persistent, invisible form of violence that wraps itself...
Deanna Newell
Jun 142 min read


Family Courts Must Learn from the NHS: It’s Time for Empathy, Not Judgment
When someone walks into an NHS hospital, they are often at their lowest—physically, emotionally, or mentally. Healthcare professionals...
Deanna Newell
Jun 143 min read


Financial Alienation: The Unseen War That Hurts Our Children
In recent years, financial alienation has become more visible—and more damaging. The COVID-19 pandemic, the cost-of-living crisis, and...
Deanna Newell
Jun 143 min read


Petition: Make It a Criminal Offence to Deliberately Avoid Paying Fair Child Maintenance
We call on the UK Government to reform the Child Maintenance System (CMS) and make it a criminal offence for paying parents to...
Deanna Newell
Jun 143 min read


Legal Systems Overwhelmed by Misuse of Parental Alienation Allegations in Domestic Abuse and Coercive Control Cases
False allegations of parental alienation—increasingly used to deflect from genuine concerns about domestic abuse, coercive control, and...
Deanna Newell
Jun 143 min read
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