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Economic Abuse and Parental Alienation: The Hidden War That No One Talks About
“It’s not love. It’s not protection. It’s control.” Economic abuse is one of the least understood — but most devastating — forms of...
Deanna Newell
Jul 64 min read


Understanding Calculated Abuse
Too often, abuse is dismissed as a momentary “loss of control” or a one-off incident that “got out of hand.” But the truth is far more...
Deanna Newell
Jul 62 min read


When the Tears Don’t Matter: How Narcissists Weaponise Emotion and Control
If you’ve ever felt broken by someone who once claimed to love you — this is for you. Your world used to revolve around them. Everything...
Deanna Newell
Jul 53 min read


Financial Gain: A Hidden Form of Abuse
What Do We Mean by “Financial Gain” in Parental Alienation? There’s a familiar pattern. One parent leaves the relationship—often to...
Deanna Newell
Jun 263 min read


The Pathfinder Pilot Is Failing Families — Here’s Why It Matters
Many survivors, professionals, and campaigners have raised serious concerns about the Pathfinder pilot — particularly the inconsistent...
Deanna Newell
Jun 263 min read


More Children Are Going Into Care — And Family Court Is Part of the Problem
Across the country, more children are entering the care system. This is a growing crisis that too few people talk about — largely because...
Deanna Newell
Jun 263 min read
The Welfare Checklist: A Vital Tool in Family Court – Especially in Abuse Cases
The Welfare Checklist When preparing for family court — especially in situations involving domestic abuse, coercive control, or financial...
Deanna Newell
Jun 263 min read


The Bruises You Can’t See: Why Coercive Control Is the Most Devastating Form of Abuse
Coercive Control Domestic abuse has evolved. It's not always raised fists and broken bones. It’s not always a panic button or a black...
Deanna Newell
Jun 263 min read


The Family Court System Is Failing Those Most at Risk
Across the country, survivors of domestic abuse and their children are being failed by the very systems meant to protect them. Family...
Deanna Newell
Jun 263 min read


Coercive Control Is a Crime — The Family Court Must Catch Up
Serious Crime Act 2015 – Section 76 Section 76 of the Serious Crime Act 2015 makes it a criminal offence to repeatedly or continuously...
Deanna Newell
Jun 263 min read


Nineteen More Child Homicides. Still No Reform.
How many more children must die before family courts take coercive control seriously? Nineteen children. Killed by fathers with known...
Deanna Newell
Jun 262 min read


Autism, Neurodiversity and the Family Court: Why Understanding Difference Is Essential for Justice
When autism is part of a family court case —whether it’s about child arrangements, safeguarding, or parental capacity—understanding...
Deanna Newell
Jun 253 min read


What Is a Narcissist? The Five Mistakes You Must Avoid
These people lack empathy. They avoid accountability. To them, it’s all about power. They strut around like gods — but don’t be...
Deanna Newell
Jun 253 min read


Why You Must Gather Evidence; Your Ultimate Checklist for Spotting Manipulation and Abuse
When you’re dealing with a manipulative or abusive ex, evidence isn’t just helpful — it’s essential. Abusers rewrite history. They lie,...
Deanna Newell
Jun 253 min read


When Finances Fuel Family Conflict; Hard truths about child support, alienation, & the real cost to children
Child support is meant to help children thrive — not destroy families. But for many non-custodial parents, it feels like punishment, not...
Deanna Newell
Jun 252 min read


Full Circle – Why I Speak Out
I Can Breathe Again No more walking on eggshells. No more shrinking to keep the peace. No more pretending. I left control. I found love....
Deanna Newell
Jun 242 min read


The woman is rising — and so is her voice.
He Said, She Said is more than a book. It’s a reckoning. Written by Charlotte Proudman — award-winning barrister, academic, and...
Deanna Newell
Jun 231 min read


Family Courts & Autism: The Crisis You Must Know
Family courts exist to protect children’s welfare. But for autistic children and families affected by domestic abuse, they often do the...
Deanna Newell
Jun 233 min read


Practice Direction 12J: What Every Survivor Needs to Know
What Is PD12J? PD12J is not optional. It’s the law. If abuse is raised in family court, this rule must be followed. When it’s not, lives...
Deanna Newell
Jun 232 min read


Family Courts: A System Built to Protect — Now Weaponised to Harm
The UK Family Court was designed to protect children and ensure justice in the most sensitive areas of life — relationships, parenthood,...
Deanna Newell
Jun 203 min read
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