top of page


WHAT WE DON’T TALK ABOUT ENOUGH: THE REALITY OF CHILD MAINTENANCE
Child maintenance exists for one reason:- Child Maintenance exists to ensure that children receive financial support when parents separate. That principle is difficult to argue with. Children deserve food, clothing, housing, education, opportunities, stability, and security regardless of whether their parents remain together. But there is a difficult conversation that society, politicians, campaigners, and policymakers often avoid. The child maintenance debate has become in
Deanna Newell
Jun 85 min read


What Did I Marry? Coercive Control and the Illusion of “His House”
There is a question that many women consider, but rarely say out loud: “What have I married?” Not because the signs were always obvious. But because coercive control does not begin with chaos. It begins with control, subtle, strategic, and socially invisible. The Illusion of Security In The Housemaid, we see a familiar façade; a beautiful home, financial stability, a respectable partner. However beneath that image lies a system of control rooted in ownership: “My house. My m
Deanna Newell
Apr 103 min read


CHILD MAINTENANCE IN CRISIS: WHEN THE SYSTEM FAILS FAMILIES
Part 1: When Paying Parents Are Pushed to Breaking Point There is a growing number of parents, many of them fathers, who are not refusing to support their children. They are drowning trying to. After separation, some have:- Given up the family home Agreed to significant financial settlements Handed over pensions, savings, stability And then they start again. From scratch. But when the Child Maintenance Service calculates payments, none of that is considered. No context. No h
Deanna Newell
Mar 194 min read
bottom of page